“Those who are faithful know only the trivial side of love: it is the faithless who know love's tragedies.” Oscar Wilde. I have no idea why I wrote this quote but just IGNORE it, its meaningless..
The scariest thing about falling in love is getting hurt. The scariest thing about getting hurt is not being able to love again. The scariest thing about not loving again is being alone.
To live is to risk dying;
To hope is to risk failure.
And to love is to risk rejection;
But risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is risking nothing. To reach for another is to risk involvement, to expose your feelings is to expose true-self; to love is to risk not to be loved in return.
Yes, love does hurt. But that does not mean that you should withdraw into a shell. Find the courage to fight for your dignity and survival. Bandage your broken spirit. The best thing to do when you fall down is to dust yourself and get up once again. Shrug off that feeling of despondency, and chin up.
There is something beautiful about all scars of whatever nature. A scar means the hurt is over, the wound is closed and healed, done with. Holding on to anger, resentment and hurt only gives you tense muscles, a headache and a sore jaw from clenching your teeth. Forgiveness gives you back the laughter and the lightness in your life.
Sometimes the only way to know love is to experience what love is not. Whatever the question, challenge or decision, love is always the answer. God is perfect love, and His desire is for us to model His character. Healing from hurts moves us closer to love.
LOVE: fall but do not stumble, be constant but not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, hurt but keep the pain. Our journey here on earth is to find our way back to unconditional self-love. I give respect to all those whose hearts have been stabbed on, trashed but still found the courage to love again. To those who are wounded right now, my heart beats for you and Remember; Time heals all wounds. You are smart, you are perfect, you are beautiful and lovable. Have a heart that never hardens, a temper that never tires, and a touch that never hurts.
Learn and keep moving.
